Published inI’m Stumped·Oct 27To Watch or Not to Watch: That is the AnswerWhenever I watch a TV show or Movie recreate some historical human atrocity, I feel the same cognitive and emotional dissonance. Part of me wants to look away to avoid the images of cruelty and violence invading my conscious or subconscious. Some of me wants to resist the reminder of…2 min read2 min read
Published inI’m Stumped·Jun 14The Easiest Part of LifeWarning: I’ve stumbled upon a molehill and I am about to make a mountain out of it. I keep seeing a meme that says “High school graduates, congratulations on completing the easiest part of life.” Really? I think that’s some BS. In high school, everything is new. You have virtually…Graduation2 min readGraduation2 min read
Published inI’m Stumped·Jun 3Pride Month RemindersPride Month seems like a good time for a few important reminders. 1. However you feel, act with love. Speak with love. Post with love. Give with love. Feel how you feel, but then love. 2. Remember, God loves you regardless of your gender/sexual identity or who you choose to…2 min read2 min read
Published inI’m Stumped·Apr 24ReconsiderAt times the bravest thing we can do is to genuinely consider a different perspective. That can take so much courage because we often blur the line between who we are and what we believe so that we can take comfort in the siren’s song of certainty and extract personal…1 min read1 min read
Published inI’m Stumped·Apr 9Sometimes a Thing is not Just a ThingI have often heard it said that my Dad was a tough man to do something for. He didn’t ask for help much. If he really wanted something bad enough he figured out a way to get it and while my parents never had material abundance, they also almost never…Fatherhood6 min readFatherhood6 min read
Published inI’m Stumped·Nov 4, 2022Intent v. Impact: A case about how we treat each otherIn many areas of law, the legal analysis used to evaluate and judge certain actions or legislation takes a two prong approach that I believe is worth considering as we go through everyday life. First, the law looks at your intent. Your motives, your desired outcome….basically, your thoughts. Second, the…3 min read3 min read
Oct 7, 20222022–23 Portland Trailblazers PreviewTime to put down some thoughts about the 2022–23 Portland TrailBlazers season. This is often the very best part of the NBA season for Blazers fans as no games have been lost, no players injured and it is the easiest time to start talking yourself into things like “I’ve heard…25 min read25 min read
Published inI’m Stumped·Oct 7, 2022Once more, with feeling!There is a tendency to think of art as a luxury. Food and drink are necessities, but art is something to indulge when your basic needs are covered. We sometimes think about it like the sprinkles on the icing on the cake. It has long been the case that whenever…5 min read5 min read
Published inI’m Stumped·Aug 30, 2022Idol ThoughtsI was thinking today about idols. More the “gods we make” type than the “Billy” type. Though both are interesting to ponder. I was taught in Sunday schools to avoid worshiping anything other than the version of God my parents and church knew. It was always presented as a lesson…5 min read5 min read
Published inI’m Stumped·Jul 1, 2022Press Pause on the ArgumentIt is unlikely that you or I will change any laws through our social media posts. We might….might….change someone’s mind, but even that is probably a long shot. So, as I watch my social media feeds heat up with important debates about laws and rights and lives, I can understand…4 min read4 min read